Are You Called to be a Doula?
Some people discover doula work after being there for a friend or family member in labor, and realize they have a gift in just holding a hand, offering a sip of water, or quietly reassuring their loved one that they’re doing an incredible job. Others feel the pull when they hear a birth story and can’t stop thinking about how things might have felt different if someone had been there just to focus on the birthing person. Maybe you’ve felt that same tug of curiosity, empathy, and the sense that supporting people through birth is meaningful work that you’re meant to do.
Perhaps your own experience drives you to make birth better for those around you, whether that’s because your birth experience was empowering, or because it was traumatic.
If you’ve been wondering whether doula work is for you, here are some signs you might be hearing the call:
1. You feel a deep compassion for birthing people and families.
When you hear birth stories, you’re moved to listen without judgment and offer comfort. You believe that everyone deserves respect, dignity, and evidence-based information as they navigate pregnancy and birth.
2. You value the emotional side of birth just as much as the medical side.
While doctors and nurses focus on clinical care, doulas hold space for the whole person. You see the importance of steady, reassuring presence, advocacy, and unconditional support.
3. You’re curious about how birth works and want to learn more.
Maybe you’ve read books or followed birth accounts online. You want to understand not just the stages of labor, but also the choices families can make, comfort measures, and how to navigate unexpected situations.
4. You believe in the power of presence.
You’ve noticed how simply being there for someone, truly listening, holding their hand, or breathing with them, can make a huge difference in how they feel and what they remember.
Research shows that having a doula can lead to shorter labors, less need for interventions, lower cesarean rates, and more positive birth experiences. But beyond the numbers, doulas bring something priceless: compassionate, continuous care that honors the birthing person’s voice.
If your heart beats a little faster when you imagine yourself in that role, it may be time to follow the call. My upcoming 4-day DONA-Approved Birth Doula Workshop is designed to give you the skills, knowledge, and confidence to begin your doula journey! This Workshop is immersive, hands-on, and rooted in respect for every birthing person. You’ll leave with the tools to begin attending births right away, plus the foundation to pursue full certification with DONA International.
If you’ve been waiting for a sign, this is it. The families you’ll one day serve are waiting too.